This is the day that the Lord has made, let us be glad and rejoice in it!

This is the day that the Lord has made, let us be glad and rejoice in it!

Saturday, February 25, 2012

The Truth about Birth Control and Why I Don't Use It

First, let me start with an apology. (I know, I never would have won at debate). This blog is not directed at the  friends, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and strangers who read this blog. It it directed at the acquaintances I barely know from facebook whose recent Susan G. Koman/Planned Parenthood posts I read and mostly to the media. To the morning talk shows, news stations, and other entities who present only one side of the birth control/Catholic church/employer health coverage story right now. I wish there was a button on my tv set I could push to be piped into those shows, "Excuse me, yes me, here in the living room with all of the children running around me. I'd like to explain to you the side of the birth control story you aren't telling."

When is human life, "life"? That is the first major question to this debate.  Does human life begin when a sperm meets a egg to fertilize it? Does it begin when the fertilized egg implants into the uterus? When the baby's heart starts beating? When the mom can feel the baby move?

One of the biggest parts of the birth control debate stems from how a person answers this question. Birth control sometimes stops a fertilized developing embryo from implanting into a mother's uterine wall. Most people assume or are taught that birth control simply prevents an egg from being fertilized in the first place. That is not the case. And is especially not the case with many of the forms of birth control on the market today.*

I've done a lot of research about the science and facts about how birth control works. On multiple occasions I've taken my questions to practicing obstetricians and been told I'm not correct only to have further research show that the doctor didn't know their facts. On one occasion, my doctor actually came back into my patient room after printing off and reading the "small print fact sheet" to the birth control  we were discussing and conceded that I was correct in my explanation to her about the mechanisms of birth control.

I've also spent a lot of time thinking and praying about when I am "convicted" that life begins and at which stage I am responsible for protecting that life. I put convicted in quotations because I know that this is a gray area when it comes to right versus wrong. I would argue out loud all day long against abortion and do whatever I could to convince another person not to have one. But, I understand there is a complexity to the ethics of this less obvious definition of life involving birth control. I just wish for everyone to have to accurate facts about how it works so that they can efficiently evaluate for themselves what they feel is right. Secondly, it is an everyday life impacting kind of decision, not some hypothetical debate. Choosing not to use "traditional" birth control leaves you with less common options, but they take a lot more work, planning, and foresight to effectively pursue than taking a pill or having a patch on your arm. Plus, I'm only even considering the birth control options for a married, committed couple who are able to support a child. I have no idea what the best answer is for sexually active partners who aren't in a family situation. Like I said, this is more about what I feel "convicted" is my personal responsibility in light of my views about sex and the life it creates and not a political or cultural suggestion.


*Ok, want a fact check?
First, lets review the story of conception:
A woman's egg is released from her ovary and sperm swim all the way up her fallopian tube where they fertilize the egg.-This is Day One of Conception- Chromosomes from the mother and father combine this day to form one unique, new life. The zygote or single-cell embryo completes the first cell division approximately 24 to 30 hours after fertilization. http://www.ehd.org/dev_article_unit1.php As early as 24 to 48 hours after fertilization begins, pregnancy can be confirmed by detecting a hormone calledearly pregnancy factor” or EPF in the mother’s blood. http://www.ehd.org/dev_article_unit1.php
 
From there, the egg floats slowly down the fallopian tube where it implants around 5 days later. (between days 6-9). It should be noted that some pregnancies at the stage of implantation do not thrive due to genetic abnormalities. However, this natural occurrence is not the same as failure to implant because of chemical changes in the mothers uterine lining brought on by artificial contraception.
In the middle of week 3, only 18 days after fertilization, (11 days after implantation) the embryo’s heart appears. A mere 14 days later after implantation, the formed heart begins to beat. This is day 21. A woman has most likely only just realized that her period is late, and yet deep in her protected womb a tiny heart is already beating strongly.

Mechanisms for Various Forms of Birth Control
Nuvaring, The Pill, and the Patch
These forms of birth control work by slowly releasing hormones into a woman's body resulting in three main effects. Mechanism One is to prevent ovulation from occurring. Mechanism Two is to change the cervial mucus so that sperm have less success making their way towards the egg. At times, these mechanisms fail and "breakthrough ovulation" occurs. Mechanism three is a thinned uterine lining. On average, a fertilized egg needs the mother's uterine lining to be between 5-13mm thick. However, a woman taking birth control pills or on nuvaring usually has a uterine lining of 1.1mm.
A women choosing to use these forms of birth control has altered her body in a way that makes it extremely difficult for a fertilized embryo to implant and continue to grow. The difficulty in this scenario is the lack of research and absolute data showing how often "breakthrough ovulation" occurs in women using these forms of birth control as well as the frequency with which these post-fertilized eggs are lost due to the changes in the women's lining. It is plausible that a women taking these forms of birth control may never have break through ovulation, but it is also plausible that she may have fertilized eggs lost multiple times over the course of using birth control such as the Pill and Nuvaring.

http://www.spfiles.com/pinuvaring.pdf
This is the small print for NuvaRing. Look at the paragraph titled "Clinical Pharmacology" for the statement about the mechanisms such as changes to the uterine lining.
 http://www.thepill.com/sites/default/files/pdf/Tri-Cyclen_Lo_PI.pdf#zoom=100
Same thing on this information for Ortho Tri-Cyclen
 http://orthoevra.com/sites/default/files/assets/OrthoEvraPI_0.pdf
Same thing, see Clinical Pharmacology paragraph for statement about the changes to the uterine lining.
IUDs (Inter Uterine Devices) such as Mirena

This form of birth control works mostly by thinning the lining of the uterus and changing the cervical mucus to prevent sperm from reaching the egg. That means that in most cases women will release eggs as usual, and fertilized eggs will not implant due to the thinned uterine lining. IUD's main mechanism is to prevent implantation via a thinned uterine lining. It is much more likely that a women using these forms of birth control will loose multiple fertilized eggs due to the changes in her uterine lining.

http://berlex.bayerhealthcare.com/html/products/pi/Mirena_PI.pdf
You will need to scroll to page 10 to review the mechanisms of action paragraph. You should also read the next paragraph "pharmacodynamics" that states after 1 year on the Mirena IUD 45% of cycles are ovulatory and 75% after 4 years. That means at least half the time, an egg is released by the women using this form of birth control. The primary mechanism for IUDs is not preventing ovulation, but preventing implantation of fertilized eggs.


Copper IUDs such as Paragard
Similar looking to the mechanisms of the above mentioned methods of birth control. However, these IUDs do not ever interfere with ovulation. Every cycle a woman can expect to release a egg. Again, the primary mechanism for IUDs is not preventing ovulation, but preventing  implantation of fertilized eggs.
http://www.paragard.com/images/ParaGard_info.pdf#page=4



The Morning After Pill, Emergency Contraception, Plan B One Step,

This form of birth control contains a high dose of progestin, one of the same hormones used in regular birth control pills. The higher dose of the hormone is meant to work using the same three mechanisms. (preventing ovulation, thickening mucus to make it difficult for sperm to get to the egg, and thinning the lining of the uterus to prevent a fertilized embryo from implanting). Ironically many people who are opposed to the morning after pill do not realize that it contains the same chemicals as the birth control they are already taking. In fact, the planned parenthood website even posts a chart illustrating how you can take extra amounts of routine birth control to mimic the effect of the morning after pill.
 http://ec.princeton.edu/questions/dose.html#dose
http://www.morningafterpill.org/how-does-it-work.html




The Abortion Pill, RU-486
This is not considered at all to be labeled as "birth control", but is instead a form of chemical abortion available for use up to 9 weeks of pregnancy. Basically, the pill blocks a pregnant mother's body from making progesterone which cuts the baby off from receiving what it needs to live. The growing baby will eventually die and more drugs are given to the mother causing the uterus to contract and deliver the body of the baby.
http://earlyoptionpill.com/section/what_is_mifeprex/



So after all of that if you find yourself convicted about the way that chemical birth controls work, you may feel discouraged about your options besides having a family of 12. I remember being in that place. However, I believe there are successful methods of family planning that do not involve chemical birth control. I'd love to share what I've learned about that, but this post is way too long...I promise to write about that soon.

If you'd like to do more research on the facts about birth control, I recommend starting here:
http://www.epm.org/resources/2010/Feb/17/short-condensation-does-birth-control-pill-cause-a/

There is a lot of information out there regarding the question of uterine lining and post fertilization implantation, but its really hard to find a bottom line. I find myself rethinking and sorting through my thoughts on this difficult issue every time I look at the facts. The bottom line for me was that there is way too much ambiguity and lack of definitive research by the drug companies for me to feel comfortable taking birth control. If they can't rule out with more certainty the possibility that I will alter my body in a way to prevent fertilized eggs from continuing to develop and grow, then its not an option for me.

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Leander Snowstorm 2012


On February 12th, Leander, Texas was ravaged by a 10 minute snowstorm that left thousands without power and women and children screaming in distress. It was the worst snow storm on record. Miniature snowmen, pictured above, infiltrated Leander homes and took its residents hostage, and in some cases, changed lives forever.


The first account that our news center has been able to compile revolves around the Bartley family. Pictured above is Caden Bartley, age 5, moments before the miniature snowman army attacked. Caden has gone on record saying the he will never again go to Colorado.


Caleb Bartley attempted to play with the snow before it matriculated into the army that would soon doom him and his family.


Even Jennifer Bartley, 29 and 320 days old, and infant son, Cole Bartley, 1 year old, enjoyed a last look at freedom before they would be barred to their home for hours to come. Caden, Caleb, Cole, and their mom, Jennifer, would all survive.



However, not everyone was lucky in the Bartley family household. Collin Bartley (pictured above), age 33, 1978-2012, enjoyed his final moments of life before succumbing to the ferocious miniature snowman assault that would regrettably, claim his life. His fight for life ended valiantly as he protected his family and saved their lives and those around him. Mr. Bartley provided a great turn in the war against the snowmen by remembering how a childhood favorite cartoon character overcame a similar encounter.

As further details unfold, we will provide you more about this families struggle and the remaining families of Leander as they begin to reclaim their homes and lives in Leander, Texas.



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Thursday, February 9, 2012

Pantry Makeover!





Our pantry is combined with our washer and dryer. So as many times as we do meals, snacks, and laundry around here I end up walking in and out of this room about 400 times a day. Ok, ok, only 359 times. When we moved in and I painted every other room in the house I didn't do the pantry walls so they were still the ugly yellow white color that the builder used.

I spent a little over $100 of my Christmas money and way more time than is reasonable doing a pantry makeover. It sounds silly, but when you add up all the times I now smile going in and out of my pantry all 350 times it starts to add up into a really good idea. One night after the kids were asleep last week as I was standing in the panty with a paint roller and tiny kids paintbrush in hand painting around all of the annoying wire shelf brackets, Collin walked in and said, "Now, why are you doing this again?"

I replied, "This pantry is like my office honey- so I'm just upgrading my place of work." That, and a good understanding of the unreasonable nature of "project Jennifer" seemed to be adequate explanation. There is something soo wonderful about doing projects I'll walk in that pantry to start a load of laundry that will pretty much be dirty again before the week is over, and I'll get my meal or snack ingredients to be eaten up by growing boys who will be hungry for a snack in thirty minutes. But, that paint will stay almost just the same, the curtain will still be hanging there, and the cute pictures of the boys will be smiling back at me. Thats the draw of projects at this point in my life, something I can accomplish that stays accomplished. Its the best.

The plastic bins are $3 each from Ikea. I think it helps to have all the same style of container rather than mix-matched ones. Plus they are the exact depth of my shelves which works out great. 




The curtain is fabric from Ikea. I hemmed the edges and made a little pocket at the top for a shower curtain rod to slide through.

The pictures frames- from Ikea again- (can you tell where I spent my $100?) They are sitting on some extra white shelves I've been wanting to put somewhere in our house. Those shelves and pictures were the last thing I did and they are my favorite part!





I love these labels. I do not love the hours I spent making them. I used some pinterest labels for the concept and then made my own version in publisher so that I could fill in my own words. If you would like labels and do not want to spend countless hours of your "post-children in bed evening" making them I'd be happy to email you the file. :)
I printed them, covered them with clear packing tape, cut them out, and sprayed adhesive to the backs so they would stick right onto the boxes.

A Few Other Pantry Makeover Tips:
1. When painting in multiple (naptime length) sessions, just cover your roller and brushes with saran wrap and you can use them again the next day without them drying out or having to clean them each time.
2. Do not waste your time taping anything. Just use an angled brush and a stepladder to get really close to the edges and paint carefully to make a straight line. It takes practice but actually turns out better than with taping anyway.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

So I decided to start a new blog. I know, its not very logical since I never have time to update this one.
Its a blog about my spiritual questions, thoughts, and journey really. If you want to check it out its on the sidebar to the right or you can just go to:
http://thoughtsatthekitchensink.blogspot.com/


Happy Superbowl! I have no idea who is playing, but I'm excited to go hang out at a friend's house and chat with the girls while we watch the kids play!

Thursday, February 2, 2012

More Cole